What's done is done. The time and energy you spend complaining about it will get you nothing but a lot of frustration and negativity.
What's happened has happened. Instead of looking back, fretting and arguing about why or how or who is at fault, look forward and consider all the positive possibilities that are available to you.
If you've been wronged, don't seek revenge. Seek success, seek achievement, seek fulfillment, seek to take what has happened and turn it into a positive force in your life.
Spend your time and energy not in looking back, but in looking ahead. For that is where you can make a difference.
Learn from what has happened, allow it to inspire and motivate you in a positive way, and then choose to move forward. See the value in the way things are at this moment, and see how you can make full use of that value.
Let go of your attachment to what has already happened. And make room in your life to create the very best that can be.

This is something we all should think about, we live in a stressed world and often take each other for granted, don't forget to be a friend, never a stranger. Don't get to bed angry, always try to if you are maybe fighting with your wife, son or daughter,friend let it out with each other and get it together.
You never know if there is a tomorrow.

Take care of each other and take each day to your heart that you have with those who you love.

I just love taking pictures.

This is photos of My daughter just 8 months old and some today. She is 16 today and a real lady.

My cat's names are Layla and Mango.

I hope you enjoy some photos here.

Take Care

Kim

Well my first blogg here, and what shall I write about. I honestly don't know, something that always is in our minds today is how the world has come to be, children shooting other children, all the violence in the world that effect us ALL.

Isn’t it time for us adults to set a stop for all this, a reaction in form of a mass public from the whole world. Some kind of demonstration anything to make the violence stop. We can't stop it all, I am aware of that, but maybe our voices could help a little.

The children of today will take over someday when we aren't here anymore, and how are they going to do that with all this going on in the world. Schools, no discipline anymore, children is dominating there parents and not the other way around, it is all so wrong. And talk about all the violence on TV.
I saw a movie for a while ago called A Thousand Corpses. What was that about? How can it be fun to watch some maniac murder people? where ever he goes? and is it strange that this effect our youth of today?
If we adults allow this more it will be a catastrophic soon. We must put a stop to it. Usa is a country that speaks for NO VIOLENCE , yet there is very much violence in the country, and yet it can be a big talk if a mother throw a big party for her 16 year old son with a stripper! How can people react so seriously about that with everything else going on, Oprah having a show about this and invite the parents.
How about reacting to the whole world today, why we allow our children to take over in our homes. Why is many children angry today and don't have patients to listen to there parents? Well I can guess one of the reasons. We live in a stressed community, and don't have time for our children anymore; we think more of our work and appearances than anything else, money money money.
We are forested to work, because everything is so expensive and will be more expensive. How shall all this end if we let this go on.
In Sweden Criminals go to the country to rob banks and other crimes, because it's known that the prisons treat prisoners good in Sweden. That is so sick. If the come from another country doing a crime they should be deported to their own country and NOT do their time in Sweden?! But so does it work in Sweden, they do their time in Sweden then they deport them from the country.
Social Services that should see to that children have it safe at home, send children that doesn’t have committed any crimes to institutions for mental sick prisoners, and to homes that is not good for them. One girl 18 years old had "run away" over 50 times since she was 13, and she was in the system, they Social services sent here to different places all the time and today she is a real mess. They say Social Services shall help those with problems, in my eyes they doesn't help they make things worse. People that work in these places are often not fit for working with children or families with problems.
You find very few folks in an office building like Social Services that have been through a lot them selves. I should be more of them. I know a girl that wanted to work with children and families with problems, she didn't come in, and she had to start a private place of her own. Then the others sit tight with their education and books and think they have so much knowledge.
BS I say. I don't know how the Child/Social Services works in the states but in Sweden it's a catastrophic in almost every city.

Violence feeds Violence that is not the answer. How about good old 1950th respect in the schools again, I've heard of a project in England that went well. How about doing that in the whole world. America should do what they tell everybody else to do! Take care of each other, never go to bed angry, if you have any issues with your spouse or children, take care of it. You don't know if there is a tomorrow. Movies, how about making movies GOOD movies with messages, not about violence, murder and stuff. CSI, a very good series, BUT, don't the learn out to other criminals how to do crime? If you think about it they do. I think it's time for a big change. And I will be the first to shout. CHANGE TO THE WORLD, NO MORE VIOLENCE. Kimberly Nicole